1.10.2023 Both cultivating wisdom of life and caring for needed tasks are needed by all, by the society, just the emphazies in what is mostly one's primary task, differ. Action needs wisdom of life from the doer, and wisdom of lufe needs good healthy ways of living and civiliced wisdom with life in practice following the wisdom.
3.12.2023 If a woman wants to change to a man, it does not fit together with men wanting to change to women. A male transvestite often either tests one's women's skills that have been learned in a female profession or as a part of an all female social envirpnment, and one wants to know if there is any advantage for men in having such skills, or does one get a family that way, or does one get slme other profession that requires high skills in female kinds of things. Or then a man is exhausted from living in a too manly envuronment, for example in engineering without much contact with the ways and values of other professions and the civiliced values learned in school. So the man seeks for relief to too tough working lufe by trying women's things, maybe especially more leisurely clothes, cooking, new social spheres, women's skills etc.
If a woman wants to change to a man, she typically has had lots of room for female thibgs but longs for milutary kibd of strenghts, official position and men's wisdom of life. She typically tries men's things in short spurts and flees then back to a womanly role, without regard for what is defending the country and what just a crime, and without thinking what her ways would cause if followed in working lufe and in army, where endurancy and long term sustainability of the society is important to take care of instead of single innovations while some other type of people i.e. men take care of running the society and the world well in the long run, wisely while looking at the whole from the point of view of what is good for life.
So a child ought to have her/his name according to whether she/he is a boy or a girl, and not according to adults who have started their lives in the opposite gender.
